tele_mark says:
Feliway works, but you want to spray down the blanket/towel/pad in the carrier about 1/2 hour before you put her in there for her trip. The aerosol has to burn off, and the main chemical needs that time to establish itself in the fabric. If you do that, it will help to calm her.
tele_mark says:
Awesome!! Best thing you can do to honor a cat's memory. My plan was to never have any more cats after Daisy and the brothers passed, but Universe had other ideas. They all deserve to have a home.